2013 has been quite a wild year for me, fun but quite mad at the same time. I have picked some pointers on what would make this year even better. I’m not going to call them resolutions because I actually want to achieve them and that it is not the normal resolutions people would see and read. Guys I’m sorry to tell you I’m not going to try to get fit. Instead I am putting a list together of what I am going to do. It sounds a lot more positive, don’t you think?
I am going to love and be loved in return, whether this is with friends and family or showing kindness to strangers. I’m going to try to make the world a better place for at least one person. Everyone deserves happiness. Hopefully with my love I will gain love in return and happiness. I might even fall in love, who know? I certainly don’t.
This year I am going to be more determined. This means I am going to try harder at everything I do whether it is college, work or my blog. I want to achieve everything at my full potential. This may mean sacrificing socializing time but sometimes you have to sacrifice what you love to move forward in life. I’m not going to be a student forever, I do need good grades to get where I want to go. I’m not even going to be in the same job as I have now forever, I might as well be as good as I ever will be at it. My blog, is my little baby. Every post my blog grows stronger and so does my writing style. I love having a voice so I might as be as loud as possible.
2014 is going to be the year I have fun aswell. I’m going to find the perfect balance between work and pleasure. Whether it is a break in a film or I work towards a holiday in the sun. I’m going to have fun this year whoever I am with. I’m going to try to gain happiness and hopefully give someone else happiness if only for a few seconds. I am a massive goof ball so it doesn’t take long until I make someone laugh. Laughter is the best medicine and also the best way to have fun.
I’m going to walk more. I know it is a weird one but walking clears my head and I live the countryside. Which means I get beautiful views wherever I walk. I only need to walk for five minutes and I am in the great English countryside surrounded with beauty. I’m hoping walking will give me inspiration, whether it is through the weather or the everyday people you walk past. I want to be inspired by my surroundings and staying in my room will not inspire me as much as the real world.
Traveling, is going to be one of my aims this year. I want to see bits of the world that you don’t see from a coach. I want to go to a hardcore festival, enjoy the sun or cold with my family, book my first holiday with my friends. I want to put my footsteps all around the world. I want to feel the wind on my face or see the life of another in a culture I am yet to understand. I want to discover. I am going to discover.
Yes, losing weight, exercising more, finding a boyfriend, becoming louder, shopping less, eating chocolate less are good resolutions but they won’t gain you experience. They might not even gain you happiness like you wish it had. A New Year Resolution is made for you to feel happier about yourself but these will not make you feel happy, they might for a bit but the memory won’t. What will make you feel happy is love and adventure. Even if it is the tiniest giggly or finding a new coffee shop. These qualities just add to your personality and give you a good story. I’m just adding experience and happiness to my personality. I’m going to reach for my own stars and hopefully in doing so I will have the best year ever.